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Sincerity

Sincerity is an absolute prerequisite for relationships of conscious love and unity.

Otherwise, we are all hiding behind masks, which we desire so much to remove but are afraid that others will not love us as we are without them.

When I am sincere, I am at ease and I feel alive.
My energy flows freely, because I am myself and am not losing energy trying to be liked by others

When I am sincere, I am well with myself and others.

It is extremely tiring to sustain a lie.
To hide ourselves and present a continuous illusion.
It is a suppression of our true feelings, thoughts and needs based on incessant postulation concerning what others want us to be and when they will accept us and when they will not.

All of this because we do not accept ourselves and cannot perceive our own self-worth and beauty.

It is a shame; a life lost; a lie which we live in order to be "Accepted"

And the humor of the matter is that the others are doing the same, afraid that we will not accept them as they are.

And thus actually no one pays attention to the others’ performance because we are all so involved in our own.

And something else.

We have the mistaken belief that the others will love us if we are perfect.

This is a great misconception.
No one feels comfortable with "perfect" people.
Their "perfection" makes us feel uncomfortable.

On the other hand, we are vitalized by the others’ sincerity even however negative it might be.

When I am sincere, I am on my path towards self actualization.
I am able to be sincere when I remember that I and all others are worthy of love a respect exactly as we are.

I can be sincere when I remember that I am in a process of evolution and that my faults are steps on which I am stepping in order to climb higher.

I can be sincere when I remember that God created me as I am and that to hide myself would be to hide divine creation.

I can be sincere when I understand that the others’ attitude towards me simply reflects my own towards myself.
Thus what I perceive as their rejection or judgment is simply a reflection of my own attitude towards myself and of course towards them.

By fearing what others’ think, I create the opposite result!
When I am sincere, others feel comfortable and at peace because the truth brings us together with our inner selves.

MY sincerity becomes an opening towards others, who in turn, open up and we experience real friendship which is the basis of love.

When I am sincere, I am my self.

My life and my life flow abundantly.

Sincerity = Openness = Friendship = Love = Unity = Beauty********************************
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ebooks available by Robert Elias Najemy
at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp
1. Universal Philosophy
2. The Art of Meditation
3. Contemporary Parables
4. The Mystical Circle of Life
5. Relationships of Conscious Love
6. The Miracles of Love and Wisdom
7. Total Emotional Freedom – EFT and Self -knowledge
8. Saram – The Adventures of a Soul and Insight into the Male Psyche
And available also at bookstores near you and also on our site
9. The Psychology of Happiness
http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html
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Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes on Human Harmony and 20 books, which have sold over 100,000 copies.
He is the Founder and director of the Center for Harmonious Living in Greece with 3700 members.
His book The Psychology of Happiness is available at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0971011605/holisticharmo-20 and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html.
You can download articles and e-books from http://www.HolisticHarmony.com where you can also receive guidance on life issues.
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