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May this find you well and happy. ********************************* This is Part 1 of your 6 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Aiding the Dying ". These segments are from the book "The Mystical Circle of Lïfe" which has an abundance of useful information on death and dying and which we suggest you order as an ebook (pdf file) at http:HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp. This information is also explained in the book "The Psychology of Happiness" which can be found in your booksores at Amazon.com or for 40% discount at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html May you enjoy it and benefit from it. ********************************** HELPING OTHERS TO DEPART PEACEFULLY AND CONSCIOUSLY Since it is inevitable that we are all going to leave these physical bodies, we might as well depart with dignity and peace of mind rather than in conflict, fear and turmoil. Many great beings of history have faced death with great dignity, courage and peace of mind. The moment of departure from the physical body also offers us a great opportunity for spiritual growth. It is a moment in which we have the greatest possibility of realizing our true spiritual nature. In the previous chapter we have discussed how we can begin to live and think in such a way, as to face death more consciously, peacefully and spiritually, without fear or conflict. In this chapter we will discuss some of the ways in which we can help others to make the same preparation, especially if they are close to death. It is obvious, however, that we will not be able to help others to make changes and transformations, which we have not made ourselves. Working on ourselves will be a prerequisite to helping others. A) WE LIVE IN A DEATH-DENYING SOCIETY Probably no other person in the western world has studied the process of death and dying as much as Psychiatrist Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, who has worked with dying patients in hospitals all over the U.S.A. We might call her the first and foremost Western THANATOLOGIST. She has done much to educate the doctors and nurses in American hospitals concerning the proper approach to a dying patient. Her valuable observations and conclusions can be found in her three books, On Death and Dying, Questions and Answers on Death and Dying, And Death, The Final Stage of Growth. Let us consider some of her findings: 1) We live in a «death-denying society». Neither the doctors, nor nurses, nor patients, nor relatives or friends are able to accept and face the fact of the mortality of the physical body. Thus we all try to ignore this reality. 2) As a result of her studies Psychiatrist Kübler-Ross has become convinced that there is life after death. She has openly declared in public lectures that for her, «It¹s not a matter of belief or opinion. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt». 3) She has also spoken in public with equal conviction concerning her belief in the reality of reincarnation. 4) Everyone knows the time of his or her death (at least subconsciously); thus it is seldom useful to hold this information from a dying person. 5) We are usually not able to hear or accept it when someone very emotionally close to us is trying to tell us that he or she feels that death is close. We ignore their message and try to cover it up with pleasantries so that we do not have to face this extremely painful reality. Thus we miss a valuable opportunity to communicate deeply with our loved one on this subject which is now dominating his or her mind. 6) Most people who have died and, for some reason, have come back to life, did not want to come back, but would have preferred to stay in the after-death state which they found so much more pleasant than the incarnated state. 7) Those people who had these death experiences, no longer feared death after they returned. 8) Everyone who dies is met by a loved one who has proceeded before him into the life beyond. This loved one comes to guide and help the departing one through the transition into the out of body reality. 9) Dying does not have to be a lonely, isolated experience, but can be deeply shared with others, who are mature and conscious enough to be able to share a wonderful experience, as the liberation of an immortal spirit from its physical confinement. 10) The departure from the physical body is probably the most beautiful experience of this life. 11) There are unseen, loving spirit guides within two feet of us at all times, so we never need to feel alone, or without help or support. 12) In the next dimension after death, there are different concepts of space and time. 13) After death, no one judges us, but we judge ourselves. In her vast study of hundreds, perhaps thousands of dying patients, who had to examine the value of their lives before dying, Kübler-Ross found two purposes, for living, to be predominant. 1) To be of service to others and not to live our lives satisfying only our own needs. 2) To learn to express love in all situations. B) HELPING OTHERS TO LIVE UNTIL THEY DIE Regarding the process of facilitating people close to death, Elizabeth has this to say: «Helping patients doesn¹t mean we help them to die, but that we help them to live until they die». «people who have learned to live are not afraid to die». Let us consider some of the ways in which we can help the dying person to be more peaceful and happy during his last days, before he departs for apparently more beautiful places. (We do not want here to intimate that the earth too is not beautiful, or that it does not have the potential to become a really beautiful place, if we would work towards it. We are simply reporting the evidence given by those who have died and returned; that as beautiful as this reality might be, the out of body world is even more beautiful. Neither are we recommending suicide or euthanasia, for each of us is here to learn very specific lessons, and until we learn those lessons, we are not free to leave). ************************************ If you like what you are reading, you willãdefinetly want to get the book Mystical Circle of Life by Robert Elias Najemy, which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being. | |