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Dear Friend,
May this find you well and happy.
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This is Part 19 of your 34 segment weekly email course which you requested on
"Creating Harmonious Relationships".
You can find much more about relationships in the books "The Psychology of
Happiness" and "Relationships of Conscious Love" by Robert Elias
Najemy - both of which you can order as ebooks (pdf files) or hard copy http:HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp.
and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html
May you enjoy and benefit from them.
********************************5. I CONSCIOUSLY COMMIT MYSELF TO TAKING 100%
RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE REALITY I CREATE THROUGH MY INTERPRETATIONS AND PROJECTIONS.
A. SITUATIONS IN WHICH I HAVE NOTICED THAT I SOMETIMES DO NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
FOR CREATING MY REALITY, BUT RATHER BLAME OTHERS, OR WAIT FOR OTHER TO SOLVE MY
PROBLEMS ARE?
1. When I make mistakes, I blame others.
2. When I am afraid, I try to blame others.
3. When I need to make decisions, I search for others to make them for me.
4. When I feel jealous, hurt, angry or bitter, I blame others.
5. When others behave negatively towards me, I place the blame on them.
6. In relationship to my health.
7. In money matters, I do not function responsibly.
8. When I do not have what I want from life, I complain as if someone else is
responsible for that.
B. HELP ME TO SEE IN WHICH OTHER SITUATIONS, OR WHICH RELATIONSHIP TO WHAT MATTERS,
I MIGHT NOT BE TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY REALITY.
The other will answer this question.
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6. I CONSCIOUSLY COMMIT MYSELF TO BEING HAPPY TOGETHER IN THIS RELATIONSHIP.
Some of the obstacles towards accepting to be happy with the other for long periods
of time might be.
1. Fear of the unknown - we are not used to it.
2. A subconscious belief that we are not worthy of happiness.
3. The programming that something negative will happen if we admit that we are
happy.
4. Fear of losing control or to fail to appear serious or adult like.
5. Because we are in the role of the aloof or victim and happiness or expression
of enthusiasms would spoil our role.
A. I WOULD ENJOY DOING THE FOLLOWING MORE OFTEN IN ORDER TO SPEND MORE HAPPY TIME
TOGETHER:
1. More physical, affectionate and sexual contact.
2. Non-sexual contact like massage.
3. Going to the movies more frequently.
4. Playing games together.
5. Walking in nature together.
6. Dancing and singing together
7. Looking into each other's eyes without needing to say anything.
B. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO IN ORDER TO ENJOY EACH OTHER AND LIFE MORE.
The other will answer this question.
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ebooks available by Robert Elias Najemy
at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp
1. Universal Philosophy
2. The Art of Meditation
3. Contemporary Parables
4. The Mystical Circle of Life
5. Relationships of Conscious Love
6. The Miracles of Love and Wisdom
7. Total Emotional Freedom – EFT and Self -knowledge
8. Saram – The Adventures of a Soul and Insight into the Male Psyche
And available also at bookstores near you and also on our site
9. The Psychology of Happiness
http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html
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Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes
on Human Harmony and 20 books, which have sold over 100,000 copies.
He is the Founder and director of the Center for Harmonious Living in Greece with
3700 members.
His book The Psychology of Happiness is available at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0971011605/holisticharmo-20
and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html.
You can download FREE articles and e-books from http://www.HolisticHarmony.com
where you can also receive guidance on life issues.
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