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May this find you well and happy.
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This is Part 17 of your 34 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Creating Harmonious Relationships".
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********************************3. I CONSCIOUSLY COMMIT MYSELF TO TELLING THE TRUTH IN EVERY SITUATION.
A. WHICH TRUTHS (PERCEPTIONS, ACTIONS, EMOTIONS, NEEDS, DESIRES) DO I FIND DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS FREELY?
1. SO AS NOT TO HURT OR WORRY THE OTHER:
a. That I do not agree with everything he or she does.
b. That I have not always told him or her the truth.
c. That he or she is more ill than he or she thinks.
d. That other people gossip about him or her and do not think well of him or her.

2. SO AS TO AVOID CONFLICT:
a. That I do not agree with what he or she is doing.
b. That I do not want to do what he or she wants me to do.

3. OUT OF SHAME
a. That I have not been faithful in our relationship
b. That I have sexual fantasies.
c. That I am afraid to be alone.
d. That I am angry about something.
e. That I have made a mistake

4. OUT OF FEAR
a. That I have done something that the other does not approve of.
b. That I have made a mistake.
c. And most of those answers to the previous question.
5. TO AVOID BEING HURT
a. The truth about what I do or need.
b. How much I really need the other.
c. My real feelings
6. SO AS TO PRESERVE MY SELF-WORTH
a. Any mistakes or weaknesses which I might have.
b. Anything, which I might have done which, might not be accepted by the other.

7. OUT OF PRIDE - EGO
a. How much I admire the other.
b. That the other is actually right and I am wrong.
c. To ask for forgiveness when I feel the need.
d. To admit weaknesses and fears.
8. OUT OF COMPETITIVENESS - ANTAGONISM
Much the same as the answers to the previous question.

9. OTHER
B. POSITIVE EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS WHICH I FIND DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS FREELY TO YOU ARE:
1. That I love you.
2. That I respect and admire you.
3. That you do many things very well.
4. That I am grateful for all that you give me.
5. That I want you to be happy.
6. That you make me happy.
C. REASONS FOR WHICH I DO NOT EASILY EXPRESS THOSE POSITIVE FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS ARE:
1. It is not manly.
2. It might go to your head and you might start to think you are superior.
3. You might use that against me in a future argument.
4. I have not learned to do this.
5. I am occupied with my problems.
6. I feel competitive with you and thus want to be superior.
7. I try to show how I feel with my actions.
8. I sense that you do not feel comfortable when I express positive feelings to you.
D. I NEED THE FOLLOWING FROM YOU:
1. To respect our agreements.
2. Affection and affirmation.
3. To have a common line with the children.
4. To do things together once a week.
5. Cooperation with the cleanliness and order in the home.
6. For you to express your feelings and needs.
7. To affirm your interest in me in spontaneous ways.
8. To respect our economic situation.
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