Dear Friend,
May this find you well and happy.
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This is Part 7 of your 15 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Learning to Love Others".
For more on this subject we suggest the books "Relationships of Conscious Love" and "The Psychology of Happiness" which can be found as pdf ebooks at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp
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**********************************OBSTACLES TO LOVING OTHERS Our first step is to realize when we loose our feelings of love and unity with others. The following questionnaire will help us.

In which situations do you loose your love and unity? You may feel any of the following emotions: fear, negativity, alienation, discomfort, aversion, worry, anxiety, anger, hate, reservation, bitterness, jealousy, resentment, disillusionment, frustration, rejection towards the other or towards your self, inferiority, superiority, or any other type of emotional distancing from others. After each situation note down some of the emotions which you might feel in that situation.

1. When others are different, or from another group or some specific grouping.
a. Strange appearance _____________
b. Other political party _____________
c. Other religion____________________
d. Other social - economic group _____
e. Other educational or mental level
f. Other country_____________________
g. Other race____________________

2. When the others do not agree with me. When they believe and express different opinions, or reject mine.
________________________________________

3. When they criticize me, or persons, or groups important to me.
________________________________________

4. When others obstruct me or persons important to me, from fulfilling important needs i.e.. Food, shelter, sex, work, sleep, money, vacations, meditation, the others' approval and esteem.
________________________________________

5. When my energy is low or I am not feeling well.
________________________________________

6. When others harm me or important others physically, or hurt us emotionally__________________________________

7. When I have personal problems which occupy much of my energy and mental resources.
________________________________________

8. When others do not live up to my expectations, or do not function as I would like them to. (especially children, spouses, siblings and parents.)________________________________ 9. When I do not love and accept myself._______________________________10. When I feel guilt or fear_____________ 11. When others do not understand me. _________
12. When they do not respect me. _________
13. When they believe they are superior. _________
14. When they try to control and suppress me. _________
15. When they tell lies and gossip. _________
16. When they have evil intentions and ulterior motives. _________
17. When they play the role of the victim and seek attention by crying, complaining or criticizing. _________
18. When they think that they know everything. _________
19. When they give me advise I have not asked for. _________
20. When they do not take care of themselves
21. When they do not attend to their responsibilities. _________
22. When they make mistakes. _________
23. When they do not keep their word or their appointments. _________
24. When they are weak and dependent. _________
25. When they behave in an egotistical manner, thinking only of themselves and not of others. _________
26. When they use me or others. _________
27. When they are cold and unfeeling. _________
28. When they are lazy. _________
29. When they ignore my needs. _________
30. Other reasons ---------------------------------------------------------------------
To be Continued
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Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes on Human Harmony and 20 books, which have sold over 100,000 copies.
He is the Founder and director of the Center for Harmonious Living in Greece with 3700 members.
His book The Psychology of Happiness is available at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0971011605/holisticharmo-20 and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html.
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