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This is Part 22 of your 24 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Learning Life's Lessons".

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Those interested in an even deeper analysis of what is being mirrored or projected may want to work with following questionnaire. In such a case, then it would be better to answer this questionnaire before the ones above. Ordinarily this questionnaire should have been given after the first

questionnaire, but our thought was that some may not want to do such detailed work on themselves, and thus we have placed it here for those who really want to understand themselves and get free.

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Mirroring possibilities In situation "x"

1. My attachments are being mirrored
a. What am I not getting here that I believe that I need?
b. What are my needs here?
c. Why do I need that?
d. What will happen if I do not get what I want? If things do not happen the way I want them?

2. There is a part of me that believes that this is the way it will be.
a. Is there a part of me that has come to expect this?
b. Is there a part of me that feels that I do not deserve something better?
c. Is there a part of me that has gotten used to it being this way?
d. Does this situation remind me of other situations in the past? Perhaps the same emotions or situations?
1. From the age of 0 to 7 2. From 8 to 12 3. From 13 to 20 4. From 21 to now

3. A part of me is getting something from this.
a. Is there a part of me that is perhaps receiving something from this? What?
b. Am I verified in some way by what is happening?
c. Am I punishing myself in any way?
d. Do I receive some type of satisfaction in not getting what I want, or in being the victim?
e. Do I receive any sense of being affirmed by what is happening - perhaps that I am right or good and the others are not?
f. Do I receive any feelings of security through what is happening?
g. Does what is happening help me to get the others¹ attention?
h. Do I get anything from complaining or criticizing about this? What?
i. What will I lose if this situation disappears forever?

4. I am playing roles that are reflecting here.
a. What roles am I playing here?
1. Perfect 2. Strong 3. Weak 4. Unable 5. Victim 6. Good guy 7. Bad guy 8. Teacher 9. Child 10. Parent 11. Rebel 12. Right 13. Smart 14. Aloof 15. Critic, Interrogator 16. Other?
b. Which roles am I putting others into?
1. Are they playing the same roles?
2. Are they playing the opposite roles?
3. What are the opposite roles?

5. My inner conflicts are being mirrored here
a. Is there a part of myself that wants what is happening to happen?
b. Is there a part of myself that agrees with the others even a little?
c. Is there a part of myself that would like to be like the other?
d. Am I pressuring myself to be as I am? How would the other part of myself, which is being pressured, like to act?
e. Is there any part of me that doubts what I am doing?
f. Do I fear making decisions on my own?
g. Am I looking for others or life itself to affirm my decisions or actions?

6. My fears are being mirrored.
a. What am I afraid might happen here?
b. What am I afraid of losing here?
c. Am I afraid of asking clearly or confronting for what I want?
d. What will happen if this situation is never solved? What is the worst?
e. What fear must I overcome in order to solve this problem internally or externally?
f. Does any part of me actually to some degree simultaneously fear to get exactly what I want here?

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