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May this find you well and happy. ********************************* This is Part 1 of your 7 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Reconciling Our Inner Conflicts". For much more on this subject we suggest the book "The Psychology of Happiness" by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as pdf ebooks at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp and also in your booksores, at Amazon.com or for 40% discount at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html May you enjoy it and benefit from it. ********************************** Reconciliation of Inner Conflicts Discovering our Inner conflicts Robert Elias Najemy We occasionally experience internally conflicting needs, desires or beliefs. In such inner conflicts, when our "sub-personalities" or "personas" have conflicting needs, we are not sure what to do or which decision to make. Some examples of those conflicts are listed below. As you read through them, consider whether or not you have any similar conflicts. SOME SAMPLE CONFLICTS Let us look at some examples of the inner conflicts that may disturb our peace. 1. One part of ourselves may feel we need to spend more time on our professional life while another part may believe we should spend more time with our family. 2. A part of ourselves may want to open up to a conscious love relationship, while another part fears being abandoned, hurt, suppressed, manipulated, or being unable to be ourselves in that relationship. 3. One part of ourselves may want to give those around us (children, spouses, friends) total freedom to pursue their happiness in their own ways, while another part fears losing control. 4. The part of ourselves that wants to please others may come into direct conflict with our desire to satisfy our own needs. 5. Part of ourselves may want others to support us, while the other feels restricted by their support or advice. 6. One part of ourselves may want spiritual growth, while another may feel the need for material security. 7. One part of ourselves may want to help loved ones or friends, but the other may feel that perhaps we are doing them harm by continuously bailing them out and not letting them solve their own problems. 8. One part of ourselves may feel a need to protect the planet by living a simple life with very little consumption of energy and products, while another part may want to enjoy all the comforts of an energy consuming, pollution producing lifestyle. 9. One part of ourselves may want to take a new job or leave a job that we have, while another part wants the opposite for different reasons. 10. One part of ourselves may believe in cooperating with others, while another finds that difficult. 11. One part of ourselves may have a desire for various objects or situations as a source of pleasure, while another part may feel, this is a sin, or that we are not spiritual if we partake of such pleasures. It may feel this type of pleasure seeking is a waste of time and energy considering our spiritual goals. 12. One part of ourselves may feel the need to have an exclusive relationship in which our happiness and security depend upon another person (usually a mate). Another part may find this an obstacle toward its need for independence, self-sufficiency, and freedom. 13. Our need for personal love may conflict with our need to develop universal love. 14. Our need to forgive may conflict with our need to hold on to negative feelings toward someone. 15. Our need to employ various disciplines may conflict with our need to feel free to do whatever we please whenever we choose. 16. Our need to follow our inner voice may conflict with our need to be like others and be accepted by them. 17. Our need to express our feelings as they are may conflict with our need not to hurt anyone. 18. Our need to express our real feelings and thoughts might clash with our need to have the others¹ acceptance. 19. Our need to follow a spiritual guide might conflict with our need to rebel against all types of advice or control. 20. Our need to control persons and situations in order to feel secure may conflict with our need to let things flow and allow others to act freely. 21. Our need never to show weakness may conflict with our need to share our weaknesses with others or seek their help. 22. Our desire not to ask anything from others may conflict with our need to have their help and support. 23. Our need for a stable routine for our balance and growth may conflict with our need for variety and change. 24. Our need to play our familiar emotional relationship games may conflict with our desire to get free ourselves from them. 25. One part of us wants to face and overcome our fears and blockages while another prefers to avoid and ignore them. There are certainly conflicts, which we haven¹t mentioned, but most will fall into these categories. ************************************ If you like what you are reading, you willãdefinetly want to get the book The Psychology of Happiness by Robert Elias Najemy, which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** B> ********* Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being. | |