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May this find you well and happy. ********************************* This is Part 1 of your 8 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Overcoming Fear." You can find more on this subject in the book "The Psychology of Happiness» which you can order as an ebook (pdf file) at http:HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp. or as a paperback with a 40% discount at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html May you enjoy and benefit from them. ******************************** What do you Fear? Overcoming Fear Robert Elias Najemy "We Have Nothing to Fear but Fear Itself" Franklin Theodore Roosevelt Indeed fear is our greatest obstacle to happiness, peace and fulfillment on a personal, social and international level. All anger, hatred, prejudice, aggression, violence, and war can be ultimately attributed to fear. Fear is the Mother of All Negative Emotions From the moment we relinquished the security of our mother¹s womb and had our umbilical cord cut, we experienced separation, isolation, insecurity and fear. We fear for our bodies and personalities because we know they are vulnerable and mortal. Out of fear, we seek to create some sense of security by ensuring that we have sufficient people, money, and objects, as well as a professional and social position, etc. in our lives. Then we experience a second level of fear: the fear that we might not be able to hold onto everything we have acquired. We might lose them to death, decay or change. We fear not having what we need in order to feel secure and happy. We fear losing these things when we do have them. We fear others who might take these things from us. We fear change that might make them disappear. We fear death, which means losing all this. Some Types of Fears There are literally thousands of various manifestations of fear. We can fear just about anything our imagination allows. Let us list just a few, while remembering that they all stem from the basic fear of pain, rejection or extinction of the ego or its various attachments. *Some of us are afraid of animals, insects, spiders, cockroaches, centipedes, snakes, birds and other wild animals. * We fear each other and the opposite sex. * The poor fear the rich and the rich the poor. Movies, television and newspapers do much to increase our feelings of mistrust, vulnerability and fear, by concentrating on violence, both real and imaginary. We have learned to perceive our fellow beings as a threat to our safety and happiness. * Those of one race tend to fear those of another. * Some nations create nationalistic feelings by generating fear of other countries. * Those, whose religious beliefs are weak, tend to mutate into fanatics out of fear of being wrong. The idea is that the more people you can get to believe what you believe, the more right you must be. * We may fear heights, confined spaces, open spaces, the ocean, fire, airplanes, trains, cars, elevators, or machines in general. * Some fear lightning, thunder, storms, earthquakes or even strong wind. … We also might fear exams, making mistakes, classrooms or failing in general … Or perhaps letting go, expressing our real feelings or beliefs. … Many of us are afraid of telling the truth. … We fear rejection and criticism, or not being loved or accepted. … Some of us are afraid of falling "in love" or creating a love relationship because of the pain it may bring. … Most fear speaking in front of large groups of people. … We fear not being loved if people really know us. … We fear growing old and getting ill. … We fear losing someone¹s love. … We might subconsciously fear not having enough to eat. … We have learned to fear God, nature, and the elements. … Most fear cemeteries and spirits of the dead. Finally, there is the fear of all fears-- the fear of darkness. For many of us darkness offers a festive occasion for fear to play with our imagination. A dark, unfamiliar room (or even a familiar one after seeing one of those horror films) becomes quite threatening. Darkness is the unknown and therefore is associated with danger and death. The mind can imagine anything hiding in the darkness. We are ignorant of what lies in darkness and thus identify it with danger and death. Of all these fears the most common are of: 1. Rejection 2. Failure 3. Death of a loved one 4. Our own death 5. Illness and weakness 6. Physical and / or emotional pain 7. People and animals A List of Fears Take a look at the following list to see which stimuli or thoughts might sometimes cause you to feel uncomfortable. Basic fears can be expressed in an infinite number of ways according to each person¹s specific mental mechanisms. The various expressions of fear have different names, such as insecurity, anxiety, concern, weakness, worry, inability, confusion, fear itself, depression, denial, shock, hysteria, panic, paralysis, anger, hate, rage, aggressiveness, violence, jealously, etc. Remember that sometimes fears can be subconscious, thus, although our basic emotion is fear, we might react with anger or crying. Even when we may not consciously fear, our inner child or subconscious may. Check on this list whatever makes you feel uncomfortable and add anything else you discover. 1. Your own death 2. Sudden death by accident 3. Death of a loved one 4. Illness 5. Being paralyzed 6. Growing old 7. War 8. Earthquakes 9. Snakes, rats, mice, cockroaches 10. Dogs, cats 11. Failure at work 12. Failure in relationships 13. Failure at school, 14. Failure in life 15. Rejection from others 16. Being laughed at by others 17. Criticism 18. Loneliness 19. Financial insecurity 20. Others¹ aggressiveness 21. The dark 22. The unknown 23. God or his punishment 24. Losing your freedom 25. Losing your self-worth 26. Conflicts with others 27. The sea, heights, fires 28. Cars, planes, boats 29. Elevators, confined spaces 30. Large gatherings of people 31. Travelling by your self 32. Losing your sanity 33. Being rejected in a love relationship 34. The opposite sex 35. Microbes and dirt 36. Others_________________________________ Now keep in mind what you fear as you continue reading The next sections of this series will offer us effective means of freeing ourselves from fear. ************************************ If you like what you are reading, you willãdefinetly want to get the book Mystical Circle of Life by Robert Elias Najemy, which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being. | |