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Dear Friend,
May this find you well and happy.
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This is Part 2 of your 28 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Experiences
for Couples for Increasing their Communication and Love".
Many but not all of these exercises are based on similar work of Gay and Katherine
Hendricks of the Hendricks Institute (P.O. Box
994, Colorado Springs, Colorado
For more on this subject and more such exercises you will want the book "Relationships
of Conscious Love" by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as a pdf ebook
at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp
May you enjoy it and benefit from it.
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EX. 2. KEEPING OUR HEARTS OPEN EVEN WHEN DIFFERING IN OPINION
This is a fun exercise that allows you to release tensions, discover how you react
when there is difference of opinion and also to see if you can continue loving
when you cannot agree with the other.
a. Sit opposite and look into each other's eyes. "A" says only one word
"Yes!" and "B" answers with only one word "No!"
Do this for about two minutes as you both observe your feelings.
b. Now switch. "B" says "Yes!" and "A" says "No!"
Do this for two minutes and observe your feelings.
c. Now "A" says only one word "Yes!" and "B" answers
with only one word "No!" but you both say it in a pleading way. Do this
for about one minute as you both observe your feelings. d. Now "B" says
only one word "Yes!" and "A" answers with only one word "No!"
Now you both say it with as much anger as you can!!! Do this for about two minutes
as you both observe your feelings.
e. Now "A" says only one word "Yes!" and "B" answers
with only one word "No!" This time say your word with as much love as
you can. You do not give in; you remain in your different opinion, but you maintain
great love for the person you are not agreeing with!!!
Do this for about two minutes as you both observe your feelings. f. Now do the
same, but "B" says only one word "Yes!" and "A"
answers with only one word "No!" Again, you both say your word with
as much love as you can. You do not give in, you remain in your different opinion,
maintaining great love for the person you not agreeing with.
The difference this time is that you touch the other person, perhaps holding his
hand or shoulder affectionately as you continue to disagree with him or her!!!
Do this for about two minutes as you both observe your feelings.
g. Now share your discoveries, observations and feelings. Remember the various
parts of the exercise:
1. Did you feel more comfortable saying Yes or No?
2. How did you while feel while pleading? Or with the other's pleading?
3. How did you while feel while speaking with anger? Or with the other speaking
angrily?
4. How did you while feel while speaking with love? Or with the other speaking
with love?
5. Did it make any difference when you were touching?
6. Could you simultaneously disagree and keep your heart open?
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