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May this find you well and happy. ********************************* This is Part 4 of your 12 segment weekly email course which you requested on "Dealing with the Departure of Loved Ones ". These segments are from the book ""Mystical Circle of Life"" which has an abundance of useful information on death and dying and which we suggest you order as an ebook (pdf file) at http:HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp. This information is also explained in the book "The Psychology of Happiness" which can be found in your booksores at Amazon.com or for 40% discount at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html May you enjoy it and benefit from it. ********************************** 5. Guilt that I did not give enough love to that person. I did not show him enough love. I scolded him too much, I complained too much. I was negative and unpleasant. I never told him, how much I loved, respected and appreciated him. I was unpleasant and nagging. All this might be true, although it is probably not as true as we now imagine it. The other may not have experienced us as negatively as we imagine. If, however, we do feel guilt, there are some solutions. We can bring that person to mind and imagine that he or she is standing in front of us. (This may require some practice in relaxation, positive projection, or meditation techniques.) We can then communicate mentally with this person, expressing our remorse and regret and ask for forgiveness. I did this with my father, who was suddenly murdered. It helped me overcome guilt I felt about not showing him the love and respect I did have for him, because I was still rebelling. We can also express our hurt, anger, disappointment or any other feelings. We can settle accounts. They hear us, as we have already established in chapter I. Thus we can simultaneously forgive and ask forgiveness. Such an exercise will bring us peace of mind. If we are accustomed to the Sacraments of confession and Holy communion, then let us also partake in them. Then let us forgive our selves and be over with these useless emotions of guilt which do not help anyone at all - certainly not our loved one and not our selves. 6. Guilt that I could have done more to keep him alive. I should have taken him to another doctor, to another hospital. If only we had done this other operation. If only I was there when he died, I could have prevented it. It is all my fault. I am to blame for his death. Such feelings are common. Let us, however, take a look at them. This is like playing God. Am I God that I can keep someone alive? Such thoughts are totally in contradiction with the laws of the universe which state that each soul (in collaboration with the divine plan) decides the moment of birth and death. No one can create some one else¹s death. I do not believe that the person who shot my father was the cause of his death. I believe that he was simply the means by which my father¹s death was manifested. I believe that my father, as a soul, had chosen to die in this way on this day, although his conscious mind was totally unaware of this fact. The only thing he said after being shot, as he looked into the eyes of his assailant was, "WHY?" But three days earlier my mother heard him call out in his sleep, «Ray, Ray watch out he has a gun.» Ray Ghosn was the other professor who was shot by the same student five minutes earlier. The student shot Ray Ghosn (whom my father was warning in his sleep) and then my father. My father knew, in his subconscious mind, that he would die on this day. But this remained unknown to his conscious mind. If I believe in the divine law which dictates that each soul, in collaboration with God, creates his own destiny, how can I believe that someone else is responsible for another¹s death. Not even he who pulls the trigger. Thus how much more difficult is it for me to believe that someone died because we did not take him to one more doctor, do one more operation, or because we were not there when he died. This, of course , does not mean that we do not do whatever we can to save every life. But when the soul has departed, it has nothing to do with us or our negligence. We are obliged to do whatever we can, but then we must offer all results to God and accept that He controls all results and that as St. Paul declares, «not a hair moves on the head of man, without His will.» ************************************ If you like what you are reading, you willãdefinetly want to get the book Mystical Circle of Life by Robert Elias Najemy, which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being. | |