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May this find you well and happy. ********************************* This part 6 of your 15 segment weekly email course which you requested on "CONTEMPORARY PARABLES" taken from the book with the same name with 94 similar parables and illustrations. If you like the material you are receiving, you definitely enjoy the whole book by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as a pdf ebook at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp May you enjoy and benefit from it. ********************************** CONNECTED CONTAINERS Communication between people with close emotional contact such as lovers, parents, children or members of the same family, is very much like the flow of water in two containers connected on their lower half. When the water level in one container is pressured downwards it will naturally rise in the other container. Thus when emotionally close persons suppress their emotions or needs, these feelings generally are increased in the others, without either of them discussing or otherwise communicating about this openly. Thus when one suppresses his fear, the other feels more fear. When one suppresses his desires, the desire level in the other becomes accentuated. When one suppresses his anger, or resentment, then the other finds himself expressing anger and resentment for both of them. For example, a woman who suppresses her anger may find herself receiving even more aggressive behavior from her husband, because he is receiving her suppressed anger through the bottom half of their communicating containers. She may feel like an abused victim, but in fact it is her own suppressed negativity, which is coming back to her through him. This is why it is so important for people to express their feelings and needs clearly and openly, so that they can be discussed and solutions can be found. When emotions are communicated in nonverbal and unconscious ways, through these connected containers, then little can be done to find solutions. You may at times try to avoid problems by not expressing your feelings or needs. You are in fact, however, creating many more problems, which can never be solved, because there is no means of real communication. Your feelings will be passed on to the other whether you express them with words or not. So it is much better to express them with words and actions as clearly and as lovingly is possible. Communication is the only way of finding real solutions to the problems between people. To be continued ******************************* If you like what you are reading, you willădefinetly want to get the book Contemporary Parables by Robert Elias Najemy, which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** B> ********* Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being. | |