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May this find you well and happy ********************************* This is Part 11 of your 12 segment weekly email course which you requested on The "CELESTINE PROPHECY" and Roles We & Others Play from the book "Relationships of Conscious Love"by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as a pdf ebook at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp May you enjoy and benefit from it. ********************************** POSSIBLE ANSWERS ON THE PART OF THE ALOOF PERSON 1. Through which roles or behaviors do you (perhaps unconsciously) seek out peoplešs attention, try to protect your interests or verify your self worth? I avoid contact, close into myself and do not express my needs, feelings. I seldom express any type of enthusiasm and usually wear a mask, which might appear happy or sad, but seldom express what is really going on inside me. I engage in activities, which can occupy my attention, which allow me to avoid contact with others. 2. With whom do you play those roles? To whom do you behave in those ways? With almost everyone except for one or two persons with whom I feel accepted and safe. 3. What do you believe which makes you act in that way? (What might you subconsciously believe?) Beliefs which cause me to play the role of Aloof: a. I am in danger from other people. b. Others do not accept me as I am. c. If they knew how I feel inside they would loose their respect for me, reject me or use that to hurt me. d. The others want to control me, use me or hurt me. e. If I show interest in someone and they do not respond, I will be rejected and lose my self-worth. f. Better to be a loner than be hurt. g. In this way I protect myself from losing time and energy with other people. h. People may think I am silly if I express myself freely. i. By being mysterious, people will pay attention to me and try to get my attention. 4. How do the others react when you do this? Some just ignore me and let me be as I am. Others get angry and through the roles of the intimidator or interrogator, try to get my attention or get what they want from me. Some play the victim and try to get my attention in that way. 5. Would you like to act in some other way? According to your inner wisdom, what would be the ideal way for you to act? I would like to be more open and express my feelings, needs or beliefs more freely. I would like to create deep communicative relationships in which I can express whatever is going on within me to the other. I would like to be free from the importance I give to what others think of me or how they will respond to me, and just be myself, without hiding. I would like to be more spontaneous and creative in my communication with others. I want to believe in people again. I want to be free of fear towards the intimidators, free from the need to be accepted by the interrogators and free from the feel of responsibility for the victims and, thus, will have no need to close into myself. 6. What would you need to believe in order to be free to act in that ideal way? a. I accept and love myself exactly as I am. b. I feel safe and secure in expressing my needs, feelings, beliefs and interests in every situation. c. Only by communicating can I create the loving reality that I desire. d. I can be really happy only by expressing my real self. e. I enjoy the process of self-discovery which comes from open honest commutation. f. When I do not communicate, I cut myself and others off from the flow of energy and love which nurtures and heals us. YOUR TURN AGAIN Now it is your turn to answer the above questions. I suggest you do not refer to samples so as not to be affected by them. Having answered the questions, you might then look at the answers given here, as perhaps you will find something that you missed. Once having done the previous two analyses (The previous chapter and this one), the next stage is to make a list of the truths we would like to remember in order to be able to: 1. React more positive and effectively towards those loved ones who are playing some of these roles and, 2. Avoid playing these roles ourselves. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ POSITIVE BELIEFS WHICH I WOULD LIKE TO STRENGTHEN A. In order to be positive, clear, loving and peaceful when coping with a: 1. Intimidator _____________________________________________ 2. Interrogator _____________________________________________ 3. Victim _____________________________________________ 4. _____________________________________________ B. In order to avoid getting into those roles and playing them with others: 1. Intimidator ________________________________________ 2. Interrogator ________________________________________ 3. Victim ________________________________________ 4. Aloof ________________________________________ To be Continued ******************************** From the book "RELATIONSHIPS OF CONSCIOUS LOVE" by Robert Elias Najemy which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** B> ********* Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being.
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