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May this find you well and happy ********************************* This is Part 10 of your 12 segment weekly email course which you requested on The "CELESTINE PROPHECY" and Roles We & Others Play from the book "Relationships of Conscious Love"by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as a pdf ebook at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp May you enjoy and benefit from it. ********************************** POSSIBLE ANSWERS ON THE PART OF THE VICTIM 1. Through which roles or behaviors do you (perhaps unconsciously) seek out peoplešs attention, try to protect your interests or verify your self worth? I complain, feel sorry for myself, talk about my problems and present myself as weak and as the victim of other peoplešs unjust acts or negligence. Sometimes I do not say anything but just sacrifice my needs continually so that the others can have what they want. I make others feel indebted to me or responsible for my problems. 2. With whom do you play those roles? To whom do you behave in those ways? Mainly with family and friends. 3. What do you believe which makes you act in that way? (What might you subconsciously believe?) Beliefs which cause me to play the role of Victim: a. I am the victim. I am weak. b. Others create my reality. Others are to blame for my situation. c. I cannot create the reality I want. I need others to help me. d. If I am the victim, then I am a good person and the others are bad. e. No one knows how much I suffer. f. People will pay attention to me only if I have problems. g. If I am fine, no one will care about me. h. Since I am the victim and weak they must not pressure me, shout at me, ask much of me. i. Since I am the victim, the others must change. j. Since I am weak, the others must serve me. k. The others are required to satisfy my needs. l. If the others do not satisfy my needs, that means that they do not love me and do not care for me. m. I am the center of the universe and all must address themselves to my needs. n. I do not have the right to express my needs. They will never be paid attention to. Better not to express them and then complain later. 4. How do the others react when you do this? They sometimes pay attention to me and try to help me. At others times, they get angry with me and play the intimidator or interrogator. A few just ignore or avoid me. And some play the same role back to me, telling me that I am responsible for their unhappiness. 5. Would you like to act in some other way? According to your inner wisdom, what would be the ideal way for you to act? I would like to feel more self-confidence and feel able to create the reality I desire. When I need someonešs attention or love, I will simply express that need to them, without having to present myself as weak or unhappy or use my problems as way to get others to pay attention to me, love me or help me. I will take full responsibility for my reality and cease depending on others, waiting for others to solve my problems or blaming others for my situation. I will become more dynamic in creating what I want. I will stop fearing others and feel my own self-worth and inner security in relationship with every person, especially intimidators and interrogators. 6. What would you need to believe in order to be free to act in that ideal way? a. I accept and love myself exactly as I am. b. I accept and love others exactly as they are. c. Life gives me exactly what I need at each moment in order to keep learning and growing. d. I am 100% responsible for my reality. e. I am 100% responsible for solving my problems. f. I am 100% responsible for my health, happiness, economic situation and satisfaction in life. g. I am interesting to others as I am, without my problems. h. I would prefer having peoplešs pure love rather than force them to pay attention to me or do what I want by emotionally blackmailing them, by playing with their guilt. i. I would not like anyone to play with my guilt or blame me for his or her unhappiness. j. I express my needs in a clear way and expect that they will be recognized and respected. k. My needs and beliefs deserve to be respected. l. I deserve happiness, health and success. To be Continued ******************************** From the book "RELATIONSHIPS OF CONSCIOUS LOVE" by Robert Elias Najemy which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** B> ********* Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being.
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