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May this find you well and happy ********************************* This is Part 8 of your 12 segment weekly email course which you requested on The "CELESTINE PROPHECY" and Roles We & Others Play from the book "Relationships of Conscious Love"by Robert Elias Najemy which can be found as a pdf ebook at http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp May you enjoy and benefit from it. ********************************** THE ROLES WE PLAY ATTEMPTING TO GET ENERGY, ATTENTION OR CONTROL In the previous chapter, we searched for our reactions to others. Our next step towards freedom is to analyze the roles, which we play (independently of what the others are doing) when we want to get energy or attention from others or want to control them. Answering the following questions will help us clarify this matter. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- ANALYZING OUR OWN GAMES 1. Through which roles or behaviors do you (perhaps unconsciously) seek out peoplešs attention or try to protect your interests or to verify your self-worth? 2. With whom do you play those roles? To whom do you behave in those ways? 3. What do you believe which makes you act in that way? (What might you subconsciously believe?) 4. How do the others react when you do this? 5. Would you like to act in some other way? According to your inner wisdom, what would be the ideal way for you to act? 6. What would you need to believe in order to be free to act in that ideal way? ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Some examples might again be useful. The following answers are not in anyway absolute. They are one of many possible ways someone might answer these questions. Do not be limited by them. POSSIBLE ANSWERS ON THE PART OF INTIMIDATORS 1. Through which roles or behaviors do you (perhaps unconsciously) seek out peoplešs attention, try to protect your interests or verify your self worth? I shout at them, intimidate and threaten them, by raising my voice and speaking in an aggressive way. 2. With whom do you play those roles? To whom do you behave in those ways? Mainly with the close members of my family. And on a few occasions with strangers who offend me or do me injustice. 3. What do you believe which makes you act in that way? (What might you subconsciously believe?) a. That I am in danger of not getting what I want. b. I am in danger of not being in control of everyone, and if that happens something horrible could happen. Something could go wrong. c. If I am not in control and do not command everyonešs respect even through fear, then I am not worthy. d. I am in danger if others do not obey me or do not do what I say. e. The only way to get people to do what I want is by making them fear. f. I could be easily hurt and this is the only way I can protect myself. g. The others want to control me and get things from me and this is the only way I can protect myself. h. A man must be the king of his house and all must obey me. If they do not then he is a failure. i. I must not let anyone see my weakness or fear. 4. How do the others react when you do this? They sometimes fear me and do what I say. At others times they become intimidators like me and we shout at each other. At other times they play the victim and I stop. Some people just start avoiding me and become aloof. 5. Would you like to act in some other way? According to your inner wisdom, what would be the ideal way for you to act? I would like to feel more secure in myself and trust in divine wisdom and justice. I would like to be able to flow more and be more democratic and be able to listen to what the other wants without fearing and reacting in this way. I would like to be able to express clearly my needs, feelings and beliefs to the other so that he can understand what I need and cooperate with me without my having to shout and threaten him and thus push him away from me. I would like to be able to share my fears and weaknesses with the other and express to him my needs in a clear and effective manner. 6. What would you need to believe in order to be free to act in that ideal way? a. I am safe and secure in every situation. b. My self-worth is not in anyway dependent on how others act towards me. c. I can get what I need from people, by expressing my needs clearly and effectively. d. We can find peaceful solutions to our needs or value conflicts. e. I prefer people to cooperate with me out of love rather than fear. f. I would not like others to intimidate or threaten me. g. I trust in Godšs plan for me and my loved ones. h. The others cannot learn through my experience, but through there own. i. Everyone deserves my respect. j. Everyone deserves to be listened to. To be Continued ******************************** From the book "RELATIONSHIPS OF CONSCIOUS LOVE" by Robert Elias Najemy which can be downloaded as an ebook pdf file or ordered from http://HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp ******************************** B> ********* Membership is free and you can access 600 articles, chapters and ebooks for free.Become a Member********* Our Free ezine Claritygreater health, happiness and harmonious relationships. Click to subscribe/unsubscribe to Clarity E-zine May you be well on all levels of your being.
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