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We are organizing a seminar in San Francisco Bay Area with Robert Elias Najemy in June of 2003. It will be on employing Emotional Freedom Techniques towards various goals such as freedom from pain, fear and other negative emotions, as well as for self-esteem and self-confidence and manifesting goals. We are asking those interested to send us an email so we can get an approximate feeling of the interest involved. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * KNOW SOMEONE who would benefit from this important information? Forward it or Print it for them. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * You can view this and previous issues with greater ease by clicking here http://www.holisticharmony.com/clarity/ * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * You are receiving this because you have requested it. Removal instructions are at the end. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * WHAT IS NEGATIVITY? * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Most of us have suffered, or felt negative emotions as a result of our contact with some negative person. How can we help ourselves and them simultaneously? How can we be less vulnerable to their negativity? How can we help them to feel better? A person may be described as negative when he or she is unhappy, pessimistic, and in general, sees the negative side of life. There are two categories of negative persons. One is "other-inflicting", and the other "self-inflicting". Most are a combination of the two. The other-conflicting type criticizes, complains, argues and blames the others for his unhappiness or problems. He often rejects and abuses the others. He may be aggressive, and will usually take the opposite point of view in any discussion, regardless of what he really believes. He may tend to use hurtful, abrasive language. He often raises his voice and speaks in an aggressive manner. The self-inflicting person tends to blame himself, rejects himself, undermines his own health and happiness, is pessimistic, sees the problem and the danger in every situation, feels weak, unable and a vulnerable victim of life?s circumstances and also of the people around him. He continuously complains about life and its problems, and in general radiates an aura of unhappiness and negativity. Some combine these two types of expression of inner negativity. You may know a number of such people. You may be such a person. All of us are to some degree. What can we do when such a person is in our immediate living environment; a member of the family, our work environment or social circle? What can we do if we ourselves are such a person? * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * UNDERSTAND WHY THIS PERSON IS NEGATIVE * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Most people are negative for a combination of the following reasons. We are usually negative when we have a poor self image, when deep within we really do not accept ourselves and do not believe in our selves or in our ability to face the world and its problems. We are lacking in inner security, contentment and feelings of self worth. Many are able to hide this fact quite effectively from others, and even occasionally, from themselves. They think they have self-confidence and self-acceptance, but their negative emotions and attitudes are clear evidence that deep within, they lack a feeling of security and self esteem. Otherwise their emotions and expression would be more loving, understanding and full of joy. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * HURT * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Some of us have been hurt in the past, perhaps in childhood, or adolescence, or even as an adult. The pain, rejection, disillusionment, injustice and helplessness which we felt in those situations caused us to loose our faith in people, life, God and even in ourselves, and in our ability to be happy and successful in this world. Because we seldom look at those painful memories and have, for the most part, buried them deep in our subconscious, we are unable to analyze and free ourselves from them. Thus we are affected by them as if we had an open wound which has never healed, and every time something does not go the way we want it to, that new event irritates that old wound, which we may not even be aware of . This may be happening to that negative person in your environment. He may have been hurt and may be suffering, regardless of whether he realizes it or wants to admit it. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * FEAR * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Fear causes us to become defensive. Fear of harm to the body or personality. Fear of rejection, or being laughed at, or let down, may prevent us from being able to open ourselves to others or to trust them. A person who fears being hurt or rejected by others reacts in two basic ways. He may turn inward, closing himself off to the others. He may wear a mask and not express his real emotions or needs. Or he may become aggressive and keep people at a distance with his unpleasant behavior. We get locked into these roles which do not allow us to experience real contact with others; which is, in the last analysis, our main source of happiness, security and self-affirmation. It is now being proved scientifically, through various research studies that close loving relationships are essential for good health. Each of us adapts various forms of self-defense as children. Some of these defense mechanisms are developed from within as we learn to protect ourselves from hurt, disillusionment and injustice from our parents, teachers, siblings, friends and the society at large. Other defense mechanisms are copied from our adult role models, usually our parents. We learn a certain type or behavior and continue functioning like that all our lives. The person who has been hurting your feelings may not really have something against you, but may simply be being controlled by defensive behavior, which was programmed into him as a child. We our selves may have such defense mechanisms, which cause us to react negatively towards others, or to close ourselves off and thus loose the chance for real, loving, joyous contact with others. We may want to control our negative reactions, but they are often stronger than our conscious awareness, that is until we gain awareness through self-analysis, self-improvement and spiritual growth techniques. Perhaps those negative people in our environment are also being controlled by such mechanisms. Perhaps they too would like to get free, but do not know how to. Perhaps neither of us has the strength to admit his own negative habits so as to start making an attempt to heal the relationship. Can you admit your own negative mechanisms and reactions? Can you understand that the other person?s negativity is based on his fear, his lack of inner security, his lack of self-love and self-affirmation? Can you understand that he needs acceptance and love and patience from you? Can you stop fearing his negativity? Can you allow him to keep the ownership of his negativity and not make it your own? (continued below) * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Special Request You can help: Blood-related cancers are rampaging through our society without mercy or discrimination. Almost everyone has experienced a loss of some sort related to cancer. Sadly, Leukemia is the number one killer of children. If you would like to help, go to http://www.marathon101.org/letter.asp, before Jan. 19, 2003 Thank you * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * UNDERSTAND THE MECHANISM BY WHICH YOU ARE AFFECTED * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Are you annoyed by that person?s inflated ego and superiority complex? Does his anger and aggressiveness cause you to loose your inner peace? Does her continual nagging and complaining drive you up a wall? Does their criticism and blame make you feel defensive and aggressive? If so, you are a very normal human being. Most anyone would feel this way in these situations. There is, however, a way out. The way to get free from being affected by other people?s negativity is to go within and remove any traces of negativity within ourselves. Yes this is the solution. You may not like to hear this, it is true; we are affected by other people?s negativity to the degree that we too are negative. Let us examine the possibility of this being true. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * MIRROR EFFECT * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * There are two ways in which we are affected by what other people say and do. One way is the mirror effect. The world around us is a mirror which reflects to us our own past and present beliefs, thoughts, words, emotions, behavior, expectations, fears, desires and actions. These are reflected back to us through our life experiences - including our contact with other people. We send out subconscious messages (thought forms charged with energy) to the people and world around, who simply reflect those back to us in some way. Thus if I do not accept and love myself, I may attract rejection from others. If I do not respect myself, or believe I am victim of injustice, I may continue to attract abuse from others. If I am afraid of aggressive behavior, I may attract it from others. If I believe that people are untrustworthy, I may attract that aspect of each person. If I believe that people are in general negative, want to use me and don?t really care about me and are unable to really love me, then I will likely attract that part of each person. Each person has both a positive and a negative aspect. If I believe deeply in the positive, and approach people expecting love, respect and kindness, my own positive assuredness of this fact will draw those qualities out of that person. If I approach the same person, with fear, doubts and expectations of rejection, I will draw out that side of him. Thus we attract from people certain kinds of behavior, which correspond with our already existing expectations, doubts and fears. If we feel that we are guilty, we may continuously attract unpleasant experiences, even illness, because we believe at some deeper level that we deserve to be punished. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * SYMPATHETIC VIBRATION * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * In some cases the other may mirror our behavior. Our aggressiveness stimulates theirs. Our fear accentuates theirs. Our anger brings theirs to life. On the other hand our peace can calm them. Our love can help to set them free from their negativity. We are affected by their negativity only if that same emotion or state of mind exists within us, consciously or subconsciously. We can be affected by their anger, only if we have some anger, or fear of anger, within us. We are affected by their criticism only if we ourselves have a tendency to criticize others or ourselves or if we fear criticism. We will be affected by rejection only if we have a tendency to reject ourselves, or others, or fear rejection. If we love and accept ourselves and others, then we have no reason to be upset because someone rejects us. If we are feeling secure then we will not be affected by their negativity. Their criticism and blame can hurt us only if we doubt our self worth. Their anger can affect us only if we get into the role of the child and reject ourselves, because someone is condemning us. This is called sympathetic vibration, in which something in us responds or is stimulated by that in the other which has the same vibrational frequency. If we begin a process of self-observation and self-analysis and discover our own negative emotions, beliefs and tendencies, then we will not create so much negativity within ourselves when there is negativity around us. When we can change the "mental glasses" which color whatever we see based on our beliefs, we will see a clearer more objective reality. Now these glasses make us see rejection where there is not; danger where there is not. We misunderstand other people?s actions and words because of our negative programming. If we can overcome fear and guilt, we will be free of most negativity. We are also affected by other people?s behavior when it reminds us of our own at some level. Often when we cannot accept something in ourselves, we find unacceptable in others. If we could accept ourselves exactly as we are with all our weakness and faults, then we would be able to accept others in the same way. Life is a mirror. The image appearing in the mirror changes only when the subject being reflected in the mirror changes. If we want to create a peaceful, harmonious, loving inner and outer environment, then we will have to cultivate inner security, self-acceptance, self-confidence, inner contentment and unconditional love for ourselves and others. This inner reality will then be reflected in our daily life as health, happiness, success and loving relationships with mutual respect and support. (continued below) * * * * * Free email courses * * * * * We have created for you FREE email Courses for improving your health, relationships, self esteem, love, forgiveness, happiness etc. Go to http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/courses/index.asp and click on the courses you would like to follow and you will receive one lesson a week for free. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * WE ARE IN A PROCESS OF EVOLUTION * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * When we can understand that the person, who annoys us with his behavior is a soul in the process of evolution, we will be able to develop patience and understanding. We cannot expect perfect behavior from someone who is not perfect. Are you perfect? Aren?t there times when you would have liked to have functioned or reacted differently, but were unable simply because you are not that perfect yet? We are all in a process of evolution, which means that we are not perfect and that our behavior cannot yet be perfect. So it would be logical to understand and accept ourselves and others, when we are not able to function in the way that we believe that we should. On a spiritual scale most of humanity is about five years old, with some more mature people who are spiritually about 12 years old. What can we expect from children five and 12 years of age? Can we create the same type of understanding for the others? mistakes and negativity, realizing that they are souls in the process of evolution who will gradually, with help, grow into more mature and correct beings? Seeing them and ourselves as spiritual children may help. What is the best way to help others to change? To love them, to accept them and to be totally honest with them. We can communicate with them concerning that which they do, which annoys us, without rejecting them or condemning them. We can discriminate between their act and their person. They are souls, parts of God. They can never be evil or unworthy of love. Their actions, however, which are coming from a low level of consciousness can be wrong and harmful to themselves and others. We can point out how we feel with their negative behavior, while simultaneously reaffirming our love for them and our desire to maintain our relationship with them. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * WE CAN CHANGE OURSELVES * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Another good way to help the other change is to change ourselves. When we get free from our own negativity, weakness and smallness, and cease to play those immature games of who is right and who is wrong, who is better, smarter, more correct, then the other will gradually stop playing also. He may, however, react even more negatively at first, as he panics, because we are not playing the same games we have been playing so long, and upon which the relationship has been based. But this reaction will pass as we ourselves become completely free from those past tendencies to play those games which only create hurt for both of us. The other may become more angry as we refuse to get angry. But this is all a test from life to see if we are really free from anger, or are just playing a new role. As we change and get free from our negativity, we will be less affected by the other?s negativity and thus we will not get into a vicious circle in which one?s negativity stimulates the other?s in an upward spiraling amplification, which leaves all of us feeling hurt, wronged, angry and perhaps even vindictive. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * BELIEVE THE OTHER CAN CHANGE * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * We must be able to imagine the other can change. When making efforts to create a more loving honest relationship, if we cannot imagine the other person ever changing, then our efforts are a waste of time. That person may change towards all the world, but as long as we see him as his old self which we have known (and probably rejected) for so many years, he will remain the same towards us. Our inability to imagine him changing prevents him from changing with respect to us. Here is a technique which will help in such a case. Relax your body and mind through some technique such as deep relaxation, mind control, meditation or simply by breathing slowly and deeply until the mind relaxes. Let the eyes be closed and relaxed. Focus in the area of the forehead and relax that area. Now create in your mind in the area of your upper forehead the image of the person with whom you have communication problems. Focusing on that person bring into your mind five positive qualities, talents, abilities, characteristics etc. which could cause you to accept, respect, admire or love that person. Focus on these five positive aspects, allowing them to sink into your mind and change your feelings towards that person. Now imagine the person bathed in an aura of light and love, wishing him to be well, healthy and happy. Imagine him well and happy. Now bring yourself into the picture and see you and him engaging in various harmonious forms of activity and communication, Imagine that your relationship has already been transformed and that you respect and love each other. This will surely heal your relationship. You may have to have patience, but you will definitely have positive results if you do this daily. In some cases, the results will be immediate. You may find that you yourself have a bit of resistance to being able to find five positive qualities or imagining that you are in a happy loving relationship with that person. This is a clear indication of your own defensive negativity towards him, which is a major factor in creating this problematic relationship. If you encounter such resistance, you must realize how much more important it is that you persist in employing this technique. The problem lies with you as much, if not more than, with the other. You will both suffer if you do not get free from your resistance, hurt, bitterness and perhaps anger and can forgive and love this person, no matter what he has done to you or to a loved one of yours. Thus we can see that working on our relationships with "negative people" can be very beneficial for us because it gives us many opportunities for real spiritual growth. Meditation, reading spiritual books and prayer are tools of spiritual growth, but the real test of our spirituality is whether we can forgive and love those who harm us. Let us now discuss the various opportunities for emotional, mental and spiritual growth, which are offered to us through our contact with negative people. (Continued below) ************************************************************ ebooks by Robert Elias Najemy View them at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ebooks/index.asp 1. Universal Philosophy 2. The Art of Meditation 3. Contemporary Parables 4. The Mystical Circle of Life 5. Relationships of Conscious Love 6. The Miracles of Love and Wisdom 7. Remove Pain - Physical and Emotional with Energy Psychology by Tapping on Acupuncture Points 8. Saram ? The Adventures of a Soul and Insight into the Male Psyche And available also at bookstores near you and also on our site 9. The Psychology of Happiness http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/psychofhappiness.html * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * LIFE GIVE US EXACTLY WHAT WE NEED AT EVERY MOMENT IN ORDER TO KEEP GROWING * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * If we could believe and remember this truth when we are confronted by any difficulty, we would overcome that problem internally and externally much more quickly and effectively. Most people, however, do not believe this. And if they do, they tend to forget it when they need it most. It is an interesting concept which, if tried out and worked with for some years, proves itself to be true. I personally have seen it over and over again in my life. We develop inwardly through facing the difficulties and problems of life. The inner strength which we then gain gives us much peace and happiness. Not all people, however, grow through their negative experiences. Many become more fearful, depressed, more negative. These are the people who lack confidence in themselves, in others, in God and in life. Rather than look to see what they can learn from a problem, they hide from it, or complain about it, or strike out at others with wrongly aimed reactions of self-defense. How can we handle our relationships with negative people for our own spiritual growth process, while simultaneously creating a more harmonious loving relationship with them? First we will need to accept that life is giving us exactly what we need for the next step in our growth process through the behavior of this person. We need believe that it is not a chance accident that this person is in our life and is reacting to us in this way. We have something to learn some quality to develop something to understand about ourselves or others, something to change in our way of thinking and acting. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * WHY DO I NEED THIS? * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * After accepting that, for some reason, this is what I need to face at this point in my life, the next question is "Why do I need this? What is life trying to teach me through this experience?" There are many possibilities. Let us investigate some of them here. 1. To recognize our own negativity. We may need people to act negatively towards us in order to realize how much negativity we have within us. Our negativity may even be that which is causing the other to act negatively. Even if we are not expressing our negativity, the other is subconsciously receiving it. This negativity may be in the form of emotions, beliefs, fears, expectations, behavior etc. Our own negativity on the other hand is also that which is causing us to become upset with the energies which the other is emanating. Our own jealousy and egotism may be causing us to be oversensitive to theirs. Thus the other person?s attitude and behavior becomes a stimulus, causing us to examine our self for pockets of negativity and begin working with them. Remember that feelings of guilt, self-rejection, fear, weakness and of being the victim are as negative as aggressive thoughts and behavior. Think about this deeply. We create as much harm in the world by being the victim as others do in being the abuser. Every "victim" attracts the "abuser" in the other. Thus this is an opportunity to work on ourselves, bringing up to the surface our various weakness and faults, using the other as a mirror. When we are free from these, our "reflection" in the "mirror" will be more harmonious and pleasant. 2. To learn to forgive. This requires inner strength, inner security, and self-acceptance and inner contentment. Only people who are strong emotionally, mentally and spiritually can really forgive. Forgiveness requires much more maturity and inner strength than anger, hate, rejection or revenge. Forgiveness requires that we grow beyond our hurt and fearful egos, who try to protect themselves by rejecting, or perhaps harming, the other. Are you ready to forgive, forget and love those who have harmed you? If you are, then you are in for a pleasant surprise, because therein lies your real happiness, peace and freedom from fear, guilt and hatred. The benefit for you is actually much greater than for the person you are forgiving. The negative feelings you are holding in you are destroying your body not his, your nervous system, your endocrine system, your immune system; not his. These negative emotions of fear, hurt, disillusionment, bitterness, resentment, anger, hate or revenge are obstructing your happiness, your peace of mind, your clarity of vision; not his. These emotions are preventing your harmonious uniting with others, your ability to open to true and honest relationships; not his. They are limiting your spiritual growth, not his. You are the victim of your own negative feelings towards the negative people in your life. You create those feelings within and you suffer from them. You can forget it all and forgive, and lift this tremendous burden off your body, mind and soul. And while we are talking about forgiveness, let us not forget to forgive ourselves, for any mistakes which we may have made in our process of evolution. Let us ask forgiveness from those who we have harmed, from God and from ourselves. God?s forgiveness has been guaranteed by Christ, as long as we sincerely have no intention of repeating the mistake. Whether the other person forgives us or not is not important, since what is important is that we are asking, and the ego has let go of its fear and pride. So we are simply left to forgive ourselves and love and accept ourselves as we are, with all our weaknesses and faults. This does not mean that we do not continually try to improve ourselves and our abilities, but in the process of self-improvement, we accept ourselves at each stage. The child in the first grade does not reject himself because he cannot do what the third and forth graders can do, but neither does he have the intention to remain in the first grade. Thus we can accept ourselves as we are, while we continue to improve ourselves. In the same way we can forgive and accept others for the mistakes they have made towards us, understanding that they are in the "first grade spiritually". We can understand simultaneously that we have a wonderful opportunity in confronting the hurt or tension which this person has stimulated in us. We can forgive him and cultivate feelings of love toward him. (Techniques are suggested for how we can forgive others in my book "Self Therapy", in the chapters on Relaxations Techniques and on "Self Healing through attitude changes". To be continued in the next issue ... ************************** Work at home FOR yourself but not BY yourself!! No Selling/inventory/home parties Join an ethical family-focused company that values financial security, social consciousness and complete health: http://www.moms-connection.com/momsforlife.htm Subscribe to newsletter: moms-subscribe@moms-connection.com ************************** ************************** **** A great experiment **** ************************** James Twyman has been trying to co-ordinate the world in an experiment to bring about peace. 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It offers a variety of techniques, questionnaires and guidelines for creating happiness. It covers many subjects including: Psychology of Evolution, Managing Emotions, Overcoming Fear, Loving Ourselves, Facing Loneliness, Stages of Love, Reconciling Inner Conflicts, Healing Our Inner Child, Forgiveness and Freedom, Coping with the Death of Loved Ones. Included are 23 case histories - real life situations and the possible lessons, which we can learn from such and similar situations. ^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~ Over 100,000 of Robert E. Najemy's 19 books have been sold in Greek, an impressive number considering the small population and reading tendencies of the Greek public. 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