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CLARITY
The Psychology of Happiness
Concepts for a Happier more Harmonious life
Published every 7th and 21st of the month
November 21st , 2002 Circulation 1500 Issue # 27

Focus -
The Joy and Meaning of Giving
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THE JOY AND MEANING OF SELFLESSNESS
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We are all plagued with needs and fears which cause us to be frequently selfish and focused on ourselves and our personal needs rather than on what those around us need.

This leads to tension in our relationships and family as others feel that we are not really interested in them and their needs and feelings.

This has become one of our more serious social problems. Out of fear we have become alienated in our personal and family life ignoring others.

Our personal, family and social healing is very much dependent on our freeing ourselves from this self-induced hypnotic trance in which we are oblivious to the fact that with a little energy and time we can do much to help those in need.

When we awaken and begin to feel useful to others and instrumental in someway to their improved life-situation whether that be materially, emotionally or spiritually, we will feel greater inner satisfaction and meaning in life.


We have much to gain
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We feel that our existence has meaning.

We feel unity with others.

We feel good about ourselves.

Selflessness frees us from the need to plays ego games.

Our vital energy and joy are liberated when we help others.

But when giving there are also ego-traps.


Pure Selfless Giving
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Giving selflessly means offering selflessly with pure motives desiring nothing from the others.

We have no need for recognition, not even for a thank you.

We are sincerely interested in how we can truly help those around us.

When serving in this way we feel that our acts are totally natural and we see no the difference between serving others and ourselves. They are equally important.

Our actions are simple and natural.

We are detached from the results of our efforts.

And even if those whom we have served, do us harm, we do not feel injustice, for we keep no accounts, and do not distinguish them from those we have not served.

Having freed ourselves from the need for repayment, we have no anxiety concerning the results.

We are free to live, work and create with all our hearts without anxiety concerning the results of our actions.

It this way we are able to focus on the present, on what we are doing, and thus are more effective.

We no longer feel the need to be noticed.
We have no need to announce what we do.


How can we become selfless?
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We can function selflessly when we feel satisfied and safe in all situations.
Our selfishness is a result of our fear and self-doubt.

In order to function selflessly we will need to be free from fear and dependence on others for our feelings of self-worth security, fulfillment or freedom.

Experiencing inner self-worth, security, fulfillment and freedom, we are self-content and liberated from the need to take from the others and to control them for our own benefit.

We can begin to be selfless.

Selflessness means without "self".

A state of inner peace free from the need to compete.


A selfless life is a beautiful life with peace and meaning.
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Perhaps not very impressive to others, but a jewel in wholeness of creation.

We need to remember that we are aspects of Divine creation,
temples of the living Divine essence.

We are Divine energy in the process of evolution.

By cultivating a conscious love relationship with ourselves and God we can experience inner fulfillment and approach others selflessly.

We can begin this process by looking around us at those who might our help in some way.

They might need some money, or our time, or physical help or simply a compassionate ear.


An exercise:
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Here is an exercise we can perform towards awakening to this eventual destiny of selflessness:

1. Close you eyes and relax your mind for a few minutes.

2.
Imagine you are no you but (choose from the following)
a.
An orphan in an institution
b.
An elderly person in a home for the elderly with no one to visit you.
c.
A prisoner in jail.
d.
A person with whom you have difficulty in communicating or getting along with.
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A drug addict
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A person with aids.
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A poor person unable to feed your family.
h.
A homeless person
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A refugee from another country without a job, friends or knowledge of the language.
j.
Think of other possibilities.

3.
Now really put yourself in the other?s shoes and imagine how you feel and what you need from others. Make a mental list of what you need from society and those who make up society (From you and me ? for example).

4.
Now write a letter to society on behalf on that person you just imagined yourself to be expressing your feelings and needs ? material, emotional, mental and spiritual.

5.
If you chose «d» above, «the person with whom you have difficulty communicating with or getting along with», then your letter will be towards yourself from that other person. For example of you chose to imagine that you are your spouse, you will write a letter from your spouse with whom you just identified to yourself, expressing to yourself what your spouse needs from you.

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Now based on what you have discovered, decide on some type of action in order to help that person feel happier and more loved.

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Side A. Inner Security
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