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Dear Friends, May this find you all well and happy. This is your personal issue of Clarity. Share this issue with someone who might benefit from it. 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Loving those who harm us or have evil intentions and ulterior motives 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 The ultimate test on the spiritual path is to be able to forgive and love those who harm us. Christ exemplified this on the cross by asking his Father to forgive those who were crucifying him: because, "they know not what they are doing." He was aware of two important truths. a. They could not do anything to him, without the laws of the universe allowing it for some higher reason, either for himself or humanity. b. People can harm others only when they are controlled by their own ignorance and fear. The solution for loving those who harm us or seek to harm us is to be found in the chapter on How we Create Our Reality. We need to understand that nothing can happen or be done to us that is not a beneficial part of our evolutionary process. If you are suffering from negative feelings because of what someone has done to you or a loved one, I suggest that you reread that chapter. We lose our love, when we believe that others are the creators of our reality and are to blame for what has happened to us. We feel this especially when we are programmed to believe we are in danger and that others want to harm us. It is unlikely that many people actually spend hours thinking of how to harm us. Mostly we feel harmed by people who are simply being controlled by their needs, attachments, fears and programming and who have no need or desire to harm us. They are simply controlled by their needs. They want to smoke, drink, take drugs, move up the professional ladder, avoid work or effort, steal a house or a car, because they are forced to do because of inner pressures that they cannot control. They are not likely doing what they do to harm us specifically. This does not mean that we should not stop them with all moral and legal means from harming us or others. It is our obligation to ourselves, to society and they themselves to do so. Love and forgiveness do not allow others to live and behave in conflict with morality and justice. It simply means that we make the very important distinction between the being and his or her actions. We love and forgive while we simultaneously assertively negotiate for correct non-destructive behavior. Note: The difference between the person and his or her actions. This is an extremely important point. All of us are souls - immortal expressions of divine consciousness. When expressing ourselves on the material level, we lose awareness of that divine nature and identify with the temporary body and mind. We then experience fear, pain, guilt, alienation and danger. We then become capable of selfish actions where we do to others as we would not like them to do to us. We can do this only when we feel separate and not connected to the others. Those that harm us are expressions of the divine who have lost contact with their inner selves and act out of ignorance and fear. They are victims of their programming and ignorance. Our test is to love them as we simultaneously and steadfastly request that they alter their behavior. We love and forgive the being behind the behavior, while we help that being get free from that behavior. At times, that may even mean taking the person to court or allowing him or her to be confined in prison, if he or she cannot align with the truth within. We continue to love and help and even seek to heal this being. We have no negative feelings, but realize that for everyone's good, including their own, they need to be prevented from harming others. Each of us is essentially divine, but our actions are not. We need to find a balance in which we continue to love others and ourselves as divine energy while we seek to correct wrong behavior in ourselves and others. When others actually do have evil intentions and would like to harm us, it is important to remember these truths: a. Their desire is a product of their ignorance and fear. Spiritually, they know not what they are doing. b. They cannot succeed in their intentions unless we ourselves have subconsciously or spiritually chosen that for our own growth process. c. Who we really are is actually never in any danger - we are indestructible consciousness - spirit. d. We have much to gain in dealing with such a situation. e. Our self worth and security is based on our inner spiritual self and have nothing to do with what others think or do. f. We have the right to protect lovingly but assertively ourselves and others from any harm. We do not need to hate in order to protect ourselves. We can protect ourselves and others both without hate and with love, taking any lawful and ethical measures necessary. g. These people are actually our greatest teachers and help us along on our spiritual path. Note: We do not need to seek out people to do us harm in order to grow spiritually. Neither do we need problems or pain in order to grow. But when these do occur in our lives, then we are being called to use those situations in order connect more deeply with the truth within us. That truth is that: a. We and our loved ones are immortal indestructible spirit. b. Nothing can happen to us or our loved ones that is not exactly what we need for our evolutionary process. c. We and our loved ones have the inner spiritual strength to deal with and overcome any event or situation that may occur. (We have the free will to do so, or not.) This does not mean that we avoid suffering, but more, that we will connect with the strength and truth that will enable is to overcome that pain and create once again lives with happiness, creativity and meaning. Methods for getting free This chapter has focused on beliefs and perceptions that need to be changed. This is important and the ultimate solution. However, these beliefs are also rooted in emotional energy patterns that have been created in our childhood years and have been reinforced ever since. For that reason, we will need other techniques that alter our energy fields related to these situations and stimuli. As you proceed in this book, you will find chapters with extremely effective methods for changing our emotional energy state towards situations that until now have caused us to suffer and to close our hearts. We warmly suggest that you learn them and make good use of them. Some of them can also be learned from our site (www.HolisticHarmony.com), where you will find audio files that instruct in how these methods can be used. Guided relaxation and projection techniques are also available to assist you in learning these methods to change your emotional energy state. ****** From the book "Love is The Choice" by Robert Elias Najemy Get it at: http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ebookscb/index.asp 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Support materials from Holistic Harmony 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 1. Free Audio clips with Lectures and relaxation techniques: http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/audioclips/index.asp 2. Free Articles on health, happiness, relationships, communication, etc.: http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ezines/index.asp 3. Books and ebooks at: http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/ebookscb/index.asp 4. Learn About Energy Psychology at: http://www.HolisticHarmony.com/eft/index.asp 5. 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