QUESTIONS FOR COUPLES

Take turn answers these questions.

1. I feel happy when ...

2. I feel injustice ...

3. I feel that you love me when you...

4. I doubt that you love when you .....

5. I feel close to you when...

6. I feel distant from you ...

7. I feel angry when ...

8. I need your understanding when...

9. One of my beliefs which make me feel angry is ...

10. When I fear, one of the beliefs which makes me fear is ...

11. Three things which I respect in you are .

12. Three things which I need from you ...

13. One of the ways in which I try to show my love is ...

14. One of the ways in which I would like you to express your love to me is.

15. When I am angry, I would you to respond to me in the following way...

16. I feel blocked towards you when ...

17. I feel rejected when ...

18. Three things which I loved when I was a child (1 - 12 years) were...

19. As an adolescent my main interests were ...

20. My three main goals in life are ....

21. For me god is ...

22. My physical needs are ...

23. My emotional needs are ...

24. My social needs are ...

25. My professional needs are ...

26. My spiritual needs are ...

27. My mental needs are ...

28. My needs which are not getting fulfilled at the present are ...

29. I would like your help in fulfilling the following needs ...

30. When you have a complaint for me, I would like you to express it in the following way...

31. When you are angry at me, I would like you to express your anger in the following way...

32. When your needs are not being fulfilled in this relationship, I would like you to express those needs in the following way ...

33. I would like you to express your love for me in the following ways ...

34. When I fail at something, I feel ...

35. When you do not communicate with me, I feel ...

36. When I am criticized, I feel ...

37. I would like to spend our vacation time in the following place in the following way...

38. My philosophy on bringing up children is ...

39. Something which I need to tell you is ...

40. I need you most when ...

41. An event from the past which still bothers me is ...

42. A way in which I could participate more harmoniously in the relationship is ...

43. Something I would like to do together is ...

44. I need your cooperate with ...

45. I need your companionship when ...

46. Three things which I respect about my self are ...

47. Forms of recreation which I enjoy are ...

48. I feel close to god when ...

49. When I first saw you I felt ...

50. The way I feel about perfumes is ...

51. One of the complaints which I have towards my parents is ...

52. My feelings about our sexual contact are ...

53. I respect you when ...

54. I occasionally need to be alone for the following reasons ...

55. If our home caught fire the first three things I would save would be ...

56. I relax more easily when ...

57. I would like to get free from the habit of ...

58. Three things which I respect about you are ...

59. I love you especially when ....

60. My feelings of peace are dependent on ...

61. I have difficulty in expressing ...

62. Something which I would like to change about myself is ...

63. Something which I would like to express concerning something which has already been said in this game is ...

64. My feelings about expressing affection are ...

65. I feel grateful towards you because ...

66. I wish for you that ...

67. Before I die , I would like to ...

68. I would like to develop the following talents ...

69. I would like to ask forgiveness for ...

70. I feel gratitude towards my parents for ...

71. Something pleasant which has occurred recently is ...

72. I feel suppressed when ...

73 my feelings about our economic situation are ...

74. Some things which I would like discuss when you have time are ...

75. OTHER ... Make up your own questions.