He seeks to find others who will take responsibility for his life. At the present time his wife has taken on this role. His fear of making mistakes causes him to appear lazy. When he fears, his legs tremble. He occasionally becomes ill in order to avoid some responsibilities and situations. He smokes and drinks excessively so as to drug his feelings of inadequacy.

He attaches himself to people he perceives as strong and able but then feels suppressed by them. He praises and flatters them so as to ensure their love and support.

He finds it difficult to be punctual and efficient towards responsibilities, disciplines, programs and agreements. He also tests others' love in various ways. He demeans himself in front of others so that they will tell him that he is good and capable.

His mother was a prototype of weakness. He rejected his father and did not want to be like him. Thus, the only solution was to be "weak". He made his father's words, 'You will not do anything with your life", come true.

Some beliefs that may be leading Hubert to this role are:

1. I am unable to face life's difficulties.

2. I am not able to fulfill my father's expectations.

3. They will reject me if I try and fail. It is better not to risk it.

4. Life is difficult and dangerous.

5. I need my parents (or my partner, siblings etc.) in order to feel safe. Without them, I am in danger.

6. I am weak; I am not clever or talented. I am not worthy and I will not be able to succeed.

7. I do not have the discrimination in order to wake my own decisions. I need others to tell me what to do.

8. If I grow up I will have to take responsibility for my life; I will be like my father.

Some positive beliefs that will help him connect with his inner strength are:

1. I am totally capable of dealing with any events or responsibilities.

2. I am able to fulfill my goals and actualize my potential.

3. I am worthy of love and respect regardless of the results of my efforts.

4. Life is divine and just.

5. I have all the power and inner guidance I need to deal with life by myself.

6. I am strong, clever and talented. I am able to succeed.

7. I am able to make my own decisions.

8. I am becoming the ideal adult I would like to be.

9. I accept and love myself exactly as I am at this stage of my evolutionary process.

10. I enjoy growth and change.

11. I playfully face life's challenges.