His wife Candice on the other hand lives in the present and finds it very difficult to program anything. She feels limited by routines and time itself. She feels suppressed when she knows she has something specific to do the next day. She is usually late for her appointments and cannot understand why the others are upset with her.

Her tardiness in all matters is a constant source of conflict between her and Albert. Also she is not very interested in keeping up the house. This infuriates Albert who is extremely attached to cleanliness and order. He cannot relax unless everything is in its "place". He also believes that the house is his wife's responsibility, and feels cheated when she does not take care of it to the degree that he would like.

The more he pressures her, the more she rebels and does less. The less she does, the more he becomes angry and aggressive. They live in a vicious circle of negativity.

How can they get free from this situation?

Albert may need to strengthen the following beliefs:

a. I feel safe and secure in every situation.

b. I trust in the wisdom of anything that might happen.

c. I feel secure and safe in dealing with anything that might occur.

d. Life gives, has given and always will give me exactly what I need for my evolution.

e. I feel safe flowing with life's changes.

f. I feel safe and secure regardless of my environment

g. I understand and respect that my wife has different needs.

h. I express my needs assertively and lovingly.

i. I seek a balance between my needs and those of my loved ones.

j. I feel totally safe in an imperfect world.

Candice may need to strengthen the following beliefs:

a. I would not like to wait for others, and thus do not keep them waiting.

b. I am free to be on time.

c. I am free to direct my energy in ways that create harmony with my family and others.

d. I understand and respect that my husband has different needs.

e. I communicate my needs assertively and lovingly.

f. Freedom is an internal state that I can experience in any situation.

g. I seek a balance between my needs and those of my loved ones.